My perfect example.

In every Human, there is a basic need to be liked and accepted. Of course everybody cannot like you and in my opinion, if everybody likes you then something is wrong because  people are different  and come from diverse backgrounds .

In addition,you cannot really please everybody.

Now, we know that to be like something or someone, we need a model and although it is almost  true that nobody is perfect, I know one person who is perfect and His name is Jesus.

He is perfect  because He is God.

I and My Father are one.” John 10:30 (NKJV)

To have a great personality, we must be like Jesus. How do we become like Jesus?

And so we are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him” 2 Corinthians 3:18(MSG)

So favour, I cannot see Jesus, how do I become like Him?

Well see,as we study His word(The Bible) , we behold,  we see in a mirror, Him and we become like Him.

Simply put, as we behold, we become.

To develop that personality, you need to accept Jesus!

Your life is a mess? you keep making a mess out of your relationships?

Solution: ACCEPT JESUS! Then become like Him.

My bible which is also the greatest book on earth tells me that bad manners corrupt good manners.

Do not be deceived: “Evil company corrupts good habits.” 1 Corinthians 15:33 (NKJV)

And In the same vein, we can also say, good manners affect us.

“As iron sharpens iron,
So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend” Prov 27:17 (NKJV)

When Jesus becomes your friend, He is able to sharpen you and make you like Him through His Holy Spirit, you begin to exude charity, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, generosity, gentleness, faithfulness, modesty, self-control, chastity in great amounts thereby gaining favour before God and Man.

Jesus is the only perfect person to have lived in Human skin, Of course He still lives today and He’ll live forever but you can only be like Him and get your act together by spending time with Him.

I for one have seen my personality improve from spending time with Jesus and although sometimes I can be a train wreck, my Lord fixes me. He can fix you too. Give Him You.

Accept Him today.

God bless your spirit.

Jesus loves you immeasurably.

Favour .

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Published by Favour Sokolayam Adebowale

Favour is a wife and a mum who is completely obsessed with her Jesus. She has authored the ebook “In search of hope; finding hope in seeming hopelessness” which can be found on Amazon.

One thought on “My perfect example.

  1. Funny thing is even as we crave for everyone to like and love us, if we search deep down we actually don’t like everybody for one reason or the other. The person doesn’t have to do you anything sef, so we shouldn’t also expect everybody to like us either.

    The only option we have to like people regardless is if we draw from Jesus. He alone is the only way.

    God bless you our Evangelist

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